thechosenjuan:

honestly a good partner isn’t necessarily someone who loves the exact same things you love but rather someone who is willing to listen to you ramble on and on about a particular subject that you’re passionate about even if they have little to no interest in it

So this is how it feels…

How it feels to find what’s lacking. How it feels to seek another person who can fill the gap, the feeling of emptiness

chessys:

my favourite quality in a person is being that one person who listens to your story when no one else is paying attention and asks you to carry on if you start and get talked over

melancholy-introvert:

one day you’ll wake up at 11:30 AM on a Sunday with the love of your life and you’ll make some coffee and pancakes and it’ll all be alright

Have you ever gotten in a fight with someone bc u told them what was bothering you and instead of them apologizing they find a way to make you feel bad about it so ur left regretting even saying anything.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Avoid people who mess with your head. Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely. Avoid. Avoid.”

— Unknown

And then just like that, nawalan ka na lang ng gana.

Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.

curiano-life-quotes:

1.  If you don’t leave your past in the past, it will destroy your future. Live for  what today has to offer, not what yesterday has taken away.

2.  “No  one is coming to rescue you from yourself: your inner demons, your lack of  confidence, your dissatisfaction with yourself and your life. Only self-love and  good decisions will rescue you.” –  Jenni Young

3.  Karma. What goes around comes around. Keep your circle positive. Speak good  words. Think good thoughts. Do good deeds.

4. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.

5. “Let  me not pray to be sheltered from dangers, but to be fearless in facing them. Let  me not beg for the stilling of my pain, but for the heart to conquer it.” - Rabindranath Tagore

6.  People change for two main reasons: either their minds have been opened, or  their hearts have been broken.

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(Source: curiano.com)

How to say goodbye? A dose of daily disappointments

lovelysuggestions:

self care isnt always lush bath bombs and $20 face masks. sometimes, it’s going to bed at 8pm or letting go of a bad friend. its forgiving yourself for not meeting your impossible standards and understanding you are worth it, nonetheless. self care isnt always luxury, but a mean for survival.

Let him go not because you don’t love him but because you deserve to be loved back.

Let him go not because you didn’t try but because you deserve someone who tries harder.

Let him go not because you weren’t enough but because he should have never made you feel that way.

Let him go not because you don’t like talking to him but because you deserve someone who starts the conversation.

Let him go not because you want to but because sometimes the people you want most are the ones you are best without.

Let him go not because he didn’t make you happy but because he made you sad so often.

Let him go not because he won’t commit to you but because he’s the one who doesn’t deserve your loyalty.

Let him go not because he’s a bad guy but because he’s not good for you.

Let him go not because he’s not a choice you’d still make but because he should have never made you feel like an option.

Let him go not because you don’t want to know how he’s doing but he should have asked how you were for once.

Let him go not because you don’t think about him but because he stopped thinking about you a long time ago.

Let him go even when it kills you not to answer but you deserve so much more than a text he’s probably ignored when the tables were turned.

Let him go because he didn’t value you enough and you should even want to stay.

Let him go because it’s admirable you see still him at his best but because he doesn’t deserve your kindness.

Let him go because if he cared he wouldn’t let you and he’d still be holding on. But he’s not. You let go and realize it’s only been you all this time.

And you deserve some much more than that.

Why is it that every birthday you celebrate, I always have something to doubt. I always have something to question. Last year it was your ex. And now, a random compliment to a girl, which was unnecessary. I mean, to call someone ‘beautiful’ on social media, and not have a care whether someone (or even me!!!) would read or notice. It was so awkward to call someone that especially if you’re in a relationship. Goodness, these things are really getting to me. To the point that I am really losing grasp of your real intentions for this relationship. Are you even really taking this seriously? When people give you attention you lose sight of other people around you. I’m more concerned for you because the more these things happen, you will lose people who you should be treating with the most importance and sensitivity than others.